Mary Parker Coaching the Attitude Coaching the Attitude

'If I choose to bless another person, I will always end up feeling more blessed.” Marianne Williamson.

I have found the meaning behind this quote to be a wonderful tool, particularly in difficult circumstances.

I remember making a simple request to someone that was literally shot down in flames – the tone and words the person used seemed rude and unnecessary.

At the time I chose to say nothing rather than fan the flames, but inside I was really annoyed. Then I made the decision to let it go and, instead, send an internal blessing to this person.

The annoyance I felt disappeared and I experienced a calm, relaxed and more objective reaction. What was even more remarkable was that this person did a complete reversal and suggested we do the very thing they had initially refused.

I find blessings always help me become more objective and positive and they often have a great impact on the other person as well.

What conflicts or difficult situations might be improved by blessing the other person instead of ‘cursing' them?

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